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The Quiet Between the Miles


The world is loud.

Not only in the literal sense, but in the way it constantly asks something from us. Work. News. Opinions. Headlines. Social media. Responsibilities. Other people’s urgency. There is always something new to react to, something demanding our attention, something insisting that we care right now.


After a while, it becomes difficult to hear ourselves.

That was one of the reasons I wanted to drive the coast.


Yes, I was traveling for my writing. I wanted to see the towns, roads, beaches, cafés, forests, and small details that would eventually find their way into Shoreline Secrets. But beneath all of that, I think I needed something much simpler. I needed quiet. There were long stretches of my trip when I didn’t turn on the radio.


No news.

No music.

No podcast filling the silence.


Just the road in front of me, the ocean beside me, and mile after mile with nothing telling me what to think about.


At first, silence can feel strange when we are accustomed to constant input. We reach automatically for something to fill it. But eventually, something changes.


Your mind begins to settle.

You notice the trees.

You watch the fog move across the coastline.

You hear waves breaking beyond the road.

You begin noticing the shape of the land, the light coming through the branches, the way a small town feels when you first drive into it.


And slowly, you begin hearing your own thoughts again. That was my intention on this trip.

I wanted my mind to rest from outside influences long enough to find out what was happening inside me.

There is something healing about nature that doesn’t demand anything from us.


The ocean doesn’t care how productive we have been.

The redwoods don’t need us to explain ourselves.

A winding coastal road doesn’t ask us to have all the answers.

Nature simply gives us room.

Room to think.

Room to remember.

Room to grieve things we may have been too busy to grieve.

Room to dream again.

And sometimes, room to discover that pieces of ourselves we thought were gone were really only buried beneath the noise.


I didn’t come home from this trip with every question answered.

I came home with something better.

I felt rested.

I felt refreshed.

And strangely, I felt more complete as a person.


Maybe that is what happens when we stop consuming everyone else’s thoughts long enough to hear our own.

We begin recognizing ourselves again.


This journey reminded me that taking a break is not the same thing as running away from life. Sometimes stepping away from business, sensationalism, constant information, and endless responsibility is exactly what allows us to return to life more fully.

For me, the strategy was simple.

I drove the coast.

I watched the ocean.

I wandered through small towns.

I drank coffee slowly.

I stood beneath enormous trees.

I followed roads without needing every moment to accomplish something.


And for hundreds of miles, I allowed silence to travel with me. I think we all need our own version of that sometimes.

Maybe yours is a trail through the woods.

Maybe it is sitting beside a lake.

Maybe it is working in a garden, walking without your phone, watching the sunrise, or simply turning everything off for an afternoon.


The location matters less than the intention.

Point your heart toward something quieter. Give your mind permission to rest. Listen long enough to hear what has been waiting underneath all that noise.


Because the person who comes back from that quiet may be someone you have been missing. That is the woman I want to bring to my writing now.

Not the hurried version of me.

Not the distracted version.

Not the woman carrying every headline, opinion, obligation, and expectation into the room with her.

I want to bring the woman who drove those long coastal miles.

The woman who noticed.

The woman who listened.

The woman who remembered how important wonder still is.

The woman who came home feeling more whole.

That is who I want writing my stories.

That is who I want showing up on the pages of my books.


And perhaps that is one of the greatest gifts this journey gave me. I went looking for the places where my next mystery would unfold. Somewhere along the way, I found a quieter version of myself.

And I think I needed to find her first.




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